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  • Grief in Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Early Infant Death
    Blog,  Faith and Healing,  Grief and Loss,  Pregnancy Loss

    How Does the Way Someone Dies Affect the Grief Process?

    Pregnancy loss grief can feel invisible, confusing, and deeply personal. This post explores how miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss, and abortion shape the grieving process—and what may help.

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    jthomas
  • violent and intentional death
    Blog,  Grief and Loss,  Learning in Grief,  Traumatic Loss,  What Influences Grief

    How The Way Someone Dies Affect Grief – Deaths That Raise Difficult Questions

    When a loved one dies in complicated or traumatic circumstances, grief often comes with shame, guilt, and unanswered questions. In this post, we explore how deaths that raise difficult questions shape the grief process and what may help when the story itself feels hard to carry.

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    jthomas
  • Blog,  Grief and Loss,  Learning in Grief,  What Influences Grief

    How The Way Someone Dies Affects Grief: Prolonged Illness

    Grief after prolonged illness is shaped by caregiving, waiting, and loss long before death occurs. This post explores why anticipated loss brings its own complexities.

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    jthomas
  • Blog,  Christian World View,  Grief and Loss,  What Influences Grief

    How the Way Someone Dies Affects Grief: Sudden Death

    When death comes without warning, grief often feels disorienting and overwhelming. Sudden loss affects not only the heart, but the mind, body, and even faith. This post explores why grief after sudden death feels so intense—and what may help.

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    jthomas
  • A Season of Remembering
    Blog,  Do Helpful Things,  Faith and Healing,  Grief and Loss

    Do Helpful Things: Look Back and Remember

    Looking back can be one of the most helpful things we do in grief. Remembering loved ones, noticing God’s faithfulness, and walking with others through loss reminds us that even in our darkest moments, we are not alone.

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    jthomas
  • Advent,  Blog,  Christian World View,  Grief and Loss,  Holidays and Hard Days

    Advent Through the Lens of Grief – Christmas Eve – Christ

    On Christmas Eve, the Advent candle of Christ reminds us that God entered a broken world through vulnerability, not power. Through grief, we remember Emmanuel—God with us—whose coming promises that sorrow will not have the final word.

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    jthomas
  • Advent,  Blog,  Christian World View,  Grief and Loss,  Holidays and Hard Days

    Advent Through the Lens of Grief: Week Four – Love

    Love can feel complicated in grief. In this Week Four Advent reflection, we explore God’s love through loss, the incarnation of Christ, and the hope that love did not stay distant—it crossed over.

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    jthomas
  • Advent,  Blog,  Christian World View,  Grief and Loss,  Holidays and Hard Days

    Advent Through the Lens of Grief: Week Three — Joy

    Joy often feels out of place in grief. This Advent reflection explores how Christian joy is not happiness, but quiet confidence that God is still doing something good—even now.

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    jthomas
  • Advent,  Blog,  Christian World View,  Grief and Loss,  Holidays and Hard Days

    Advent Through the Lens of Grief: Week Two – Peace

    Experience Advent peace in grief as we explore how Christ brings peace into the places that still ache. Week Two of Advent invites us to rest in His presence, even when Christmas feels heavy.

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    jthomas
  • Advent,  Blog,  Christian World View,  Grief and Loss,  Holidays and Hard Days

    Advent Through the Lens of Grief: Week One — Hope

    Christmas can feel especially heavy when we’re grieving. Advent meets us in that place—not with pressure to celebrate, but with an invitation to breathe and remember that hope still comes. In Week One, we look at the Hope candle, exploring how even the smallest flame can steady us in seasons of sorrow.

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    jthomas
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Grieving a loss of someone you love?
REBUILD workshops offer comfort, hope, and practical tools for healing. New groups meet each fall and spring in the Richardson/Plano/Garland area.
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