Most of the month, I have been sharing about tricky aspects of life after the death of a child and how, this year, I wanted to do something to help others who might be facing something similar.
Here’s the thing: losing a child of any age or stage of life can be devastating. Moms who experience the loss of a child in pregnancy walk the awkward path of grieving a child they never knew. “Moms in waiting” grieve the dream of motherhood with each passing month. And moms who have lost a living child resonate with the thought that “Mothers hold their children’s hands for a while, but their hearts forever.”
What is it?
You may be wondering exactly what Tea Time for Grieving Moms is and why you would consider attending such an event.
For us, it was all about gathering together with other moms who spoke the same language – the heartache that comes with child loss, miscarriage, or infertility. It was a formal Tea in their honor with all the fix ‘ins (I probably should use the word “fix ‘ins” when discussing a formal occasion, but I am a native Texan). The tables were beautifully decorated with tea cups, plates, flowers, candles, scones (yum!), finger sandwiches, and finger desserts.
We heard stories from three moms who have walked the road of infertility, miscarriage, and child loss and have not only endured but grown through their pain as they have turned to our Heaven Father. Women were given the opportunity to share their own stories and found someone else who could authentically say, “Me too!” to the daily trials that come with a life none of them would have chosen. Each mom was given a carnation to recognize their story and that of their child. Yes, there were some tears, but there were also smiles and laughter that filled the room.
Why do you do it?
We hosted the event in recognition of International Bereaved Mother’s Day. Women need each other. I love that other moms who didn’t know what it was like to lose a child hosted the event. I am grateful that for the last five years, another group of moms has invited me to attend a similar event. Thanks, Hope Dawning!
Does it sound any more appealing now? I hope so. If you live in the North Dallas/Collin County area, mark your calendar for Bereaved Mother’s Day 2025. If you aren’t, check out other groups in your area or start an event yourself. I am happy to help you get started! This is a tradition worth exploring in every community. Happy Bereaved Mother’s Day!
